Dealing with the Darkness, Post-Samhain
Author: David Salisbury
Posted: February 21st. 2010
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In
many of our traditions, most of us agree that the start of the Samhain
season and the ushering in of the “Celtic winter” is a time to “deal
with the darkness”-as my old priestess called it. As the wheel turns to
October, then November, we begin to turn inwards and allow our spirits
to rest until the light comes back again. Rest is an important theme for
the dark half of the year, but not one that should debilitate us.
As
Pagans, we relish and celebrate every time of the year. Yes, it is time
for our spirits and emotions to take a break, but our practice
shouldn’t. I don’t know about you, but after October 31st, I tend to get
lazy. The running shoes get kicked to the back of the closet, the
outdoor altar comes inside for the frost season, and the inevitable
winter weight gain starts to take its hold. I tend to catch up on my
reading this time of year, but I must admit that my daily practices, my
daily devotions, often get pushed to the back burner in favor of holiday
shopping and cookie baking.
Letting our practice ease up takes a
toll on us in more ways than you might imagine. Do you ever get the
winter frowns? There is a reason why 36 million Americans suffer from
Seasonal Mood Disorder. The days get darker, the wind gets stronger, and
the air gets colder. Solar energy that normally provides our bodies
with so many essential vitamins and nutrients, are scarce. The ancients
weren’t the only ones who struggled with the winter months. We may not
constantly face the threat of starvation every day, but our spirits can
feel starved. There can become a cold void in our vital essence and
energy, affecting everything we do.
The question then becomes; how do we face the darkness of the season, but keep just enough light alive to see us through?
The
ancients had many ways of doing this that have worked their way into
some wonderful modern traditions. Building a roaring hearth fire and
telling stories used to be a staple of the winter season. Unfortunately,
this has fallen in favor of television and video games, restricting us
from vital human contact and communication. Though it is important to
reflect in the time of darkness, communication with both people and the
spirit world is extremely important.
Communication-ruled by
mercury-is the lead archetype of western magick. Keeping your practice
and communication alive is one of the best things you can do to keep
your chin up, and your magick a sure-fire zap. Here are some ideas that
come to mind:
Family Gatherings: On Samhain, we honored our
ancestors and beloved dead, those who-by blood or friendship-were a part
of our family units. Gatherings are still wonderful and important
traditions in the winter season, but why just limit it to one or two?
Plan a potluck with your family and friends. Instead of sitting around
the TV, sit around and share stories of your family, of the season, and
anything else that comes to mind. If you have a Pagan family, say a
dedication in honor of Lady Brigit, goddess of the home and hearth.
Dedicate your time to her and she’ll be sure to make your “warm and
fuzzies” stick around. There’s nothing like a party to ease your winter
woes, so keep em’ coming!
Holy Water, Sacred Flame
Brigit we invoke your name
Bless our head, our hands, our hearts
Source of healing, song and art
Staying
Active: It is proven fact that exercise can heal depression and make
your feel better. Honoring our health and activity is just as important
to our magick and spirituality as it is to our physical bodies. You
don’t have to do anything crazy. Are you in a snowy area? Brush off the
old plastic sled and get to it! If you’re just not a fan of the cold
(like I am) , try taking up yoga or some other fun indoor activity. Just
keep your body moving. When your blood is flowing, your magick is
flowing. Dedicate your practice to Nike, goddess of bodily activity and
athletes. She can keep you motivated. As the company she’s named after
says, “Just do it.”
Blessed Nike, take it home
Grant me strength from blood to bone
Vital earth and health embrace
That I may live past winters face
The
Written Word: As I mentioned, I love using the chilly weather to catch
up on my reading. It takes my mind off the icy darkness for a little
while and gets my inspiration pumping. Writing is also a great way to
take advantage of the seasonal theme of the year. Writing connects us to
our divine mind, the “inner flame” of our spirit.
Birthday
Party for the Sun: I discovered this idea from a neighboring coven many
years ago and have incorporated it into my seasonal activities every
year. Though it seems to fit best on the Winter Solstice, you can do
this any time that you wish to give the sun props and thanks for its
blessings. Try baking foods associated with solar energy like lemon
squares, cranberry cookies, and anything with orange in it. This can be
incorporated into the “Family Gathering” idea if you invite a few
friends over. Wear party hats, play games, and sing “Happy Birthday” to
any of the solar deities (Apollo, Helios, Lugh, Ra, etc) .
There
are many other things you can do, so just let your imagination be your
guide. Let these things become habit and as always, include the great
work of Spirit in everything you do. It’s fine to park it on the couch
with a steamy mug of cider. It’s fine to take a break. Just don’t take a
break from your connection with the divine. The dark half of the year
doesn’t have to be painful and icy if you don’t let it.
Remember,
the coming fire of the new year is right around the corner. Even if you
can’t see it, it’s still there, ready to light up your life.
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